A while back I read a poorly written book on a wonderful subject, which made it worth reading. The title is Imaginative Sex, written by John Norman.
In the book, Norman writes about how we as children use our imagination to add fun to our lives. I agree with him, that it is a shame that as adults we often lose that capability.
There are some adults who role play through the form of video games. That is deemed “normal” for adults. Yet, erotic role play in the bedroom has become something we don’t talk about, as if it is taboo.
Of course many of us don’t talk to our friends about the details of our bedroom life, but even talking about erotic role play as a general topic is something people find embarrassing. It is often the butt of jokes and scripts on comedian shoes. It is great to be able to laugh, but we shouldn’t regulate imaginative sex to a place of ridicule.
In his book, Norman gives script ideas for couples who lack imagination or simply like to start with an idea and take it on their own from there. I am not going to go so far as to recommend buying the book. If you have any imagination at all, you don’t need to purchase it. If you have ten bucks to blow and a kindle to read when you get bored, and most importantly, you can stand grammar that is on par or worse than mine, then maybe.
Mostly I just wanted to bring up the idea. I recommend that you talk to your spouse about it. You can use my post as a spring board for your conversation. Then take an at home date night and lock yourselves in the bedroom. Make some preparations before hand if necessary. If you both have an idea of what role you are going to play, you can think about your part and what you might do or say. You might even dress for it.
Hey, how about starting off with a farmer and a milkmaid. 
Guys love it when their ladies become a wildcat.
Guys can be a knight in shining armor.
How about taking him or her prisoner?
A little part time sex slave or bondage?
Butler or maid etc.
Really get into it and have a good time.
As you play and have fun together, you might find you want to quietly extend the roles of a week or more at a time. You will have this little insider information to carry around between you.
You might find you have a dominant or submissive personality as each one of you takes a certain type of role. Who is going to be the policeman or policewoman for example? If you see a pattern develop, I suggest you can read up on “sensual power exchange.” I have found it very self enlightening for us as a couple. Our ANR fits in nicely. If you live in a traditional “HOH,” (husband is head of the home,) like us, then you already have a form of power exchange that isn’t readily acceptable to modern society. “Don’t knock it until you try it.” LOL.
The previous post is an erotic story that describes a sensual power exchange and has some imaginative wonder to it. Some of you were wondering where it came from. Now you know. Read the post before that, and you will see it coming. All this self honesty and discovery, all the safe vulnerability to play, letting out secret fantasies, and our acceptance of our kinky fetishes; a close relationship is what makes it all possible. I credit the closeness to our ANR.
