My re-inducing journal starts at the end of week three. Today I remembered something from our first day. It reminded me how I first enticed my DH to pay more attention to my breasts that first week.
My DH, when he was home from work, would often try to sneak opportunities to put his hands on me and start something. We still have children at home. There is something happening every waking hour. This doesn’t leave much opportunity. I try not to give him the, “Not now, Honey.” response, but he can pick the worst times to try and sneak me away.
The tables were turned that week. I had been having dreams about him being at my breasts and my nipples were desiring attention. So, not only did I want to sneak away with him, I particularly wanted his lips on my nipples.
Now how do I tell him this? I was kind of embarrassed.
I came up with an idea. I would treat it as a gift.
I went over and put my arms around his neck and whispered in his ear. I told him, “I love you. For two weeks, anytime you want, you can pull me away, lift my shirt, and suck on my nipples.”
He just said, “Oh boy!” He took my hand right then and pulled me off to a bedroom and closed the door.
He knew I had made a promise and I could not say no. He took full advantage of it. It lit my fire and he liked the fire. That was three months ago, and I have not informed him that his two weeks are up. 
I can’t decide whether this incident was a credit to you or more ammunition for those who think “men are all the same.”
I can think of one way this “enticing” would work to resolve a conflict. One way a couple could avoid problems over who does the dishes might be that whoever’s not doing them could approach the washer from behind, embrace the washer tenderly, plant a kiss on their neck, and whisper “thank you.”
Great way to remind both that chores help the unit as a whole.
I was referring to your original post on the board on how you used his “deepest male desire” to “suck titties.” It seems a common complaint of women that “men are all the same” in that they “all want sex,” among other stereotypical things. Who knew that it could actually lead to something you both wanted?
With all the stories I read about married couples who fall apart over the lack of sex in their marriage, yours could definitely be a role model.
To grow old is inevitable, to feel old is not, but your method is definitely an interesting one.
I know I don’t always have the best timing myself, but it sure sounds like you’re having a great two weeks. Hope they last many years!
Now I know my man… I know what he likes. Are you telling me people think all men are like this? Wow. lol OK, I concede, not all men like to get there hands on their wives bodies whenever they can. And certainly, they are are individuals and not the same.
I am sitting here with hair dye on my head trying to cover any grays. My husband likes the red cast my hair gets in the summer, so I always pick a dye with a little red. I don’t care for the red, but he does. He also likes high heels and my nipples showing. I rather go for comfort and modesty, but I want him to find me attractive, even enticing. He enjoys me being enticing. It makes me feel attractive and young. I like it when he entices me too.
I always appreciate your comments! You add to the post and keep me honest.
Hey: Great idea on the thank you gesture too!