The man secure in his manhood… can afford to dip his senses in the sea of a woman and her womanhood.
For many hot blooded males, suckling is more of an erotic art. They see a breast in it’s full glory ready to be made love to, and know in return they receive her sweet milk fresh from the globe and nipple of what has always represented the female sex.
Hints of cleavage lead their mind’s eye to the thought of a hidden nipple. Anybody who even knows half of what makes a man “a boob man,” knows that the nipple is the bulls eye of the breast’s attraction. The rest of the breast, with its feminine softness and curves, is well loved, but the nipple is the jewel in this setting of feminine glory.
A man who enjoys the sensuality of the femininity found in the woman’s bosom should not be confused with an infant. A baby is put to the breast for nourishment and condolence. A man is there because there is testosterone flowing through his blood as he sees, feels, smells, and tastes this feminine fruit. Yes, there is acceptance and bonding, but the same acceptance and bonding is felt when she accepts his other physical advances. This may be more so, only because the bosom represents intimacy and femininity more than any other area of the female physique.
In her bosom a man may find arousal one time, and the next time feel more relaxed. At any one time it may start as either of these, and end in the other. Is it unmanly to find the softness of the female bosom and the fleshy firmness of its nipple against the roof of his mouth taking him into a mental and sensual realm of bliss? Is it so odd that a masculine man can find this blissful dreamy state as either, or both, arousing and relaxing. Here, in this mental and physical experience, the sweet milk of her feminine fruit, like the sweetness of her voice, adds to the many senses already involved is this sensual exchange of intimacy. For him to want to tarry there and return there frequently, should symbolize his awareness of his manhood being drawn to her womanhood.
In my mind I can see a scene common on a painter’s canvas. There are two lovers relaxing under a tree. He rests his head in her lap. She dangles a bunch of grapes above his lips and tenderly feeds him this fruit as they look into each other’s eyes. What in this scene captures the heart of painters and poets? Art is art, because it evokes feelings. What feelings are being evoked? Why do we know they are lovers? Wouldn’t it be even more romantic, if it were the fruit of her bosom that she was sharing with her lover? Possibly the grapes are only subconscious foreplay in our mind of the real intimacy these lovers embrace?
He Tells her,
How beautiful you are and how pleasing,
my love, with your delights!
Your stature is like that of the palm,
and your breasts like clusters of fruit.
I said, “I will climb the palm tree;
I will take hold of its fruit.”
May your breasts be like clusters of grapes on the vine,
the fragrance of your breath like apples,
and your mouth like the best wine.
She answers,
May the wine go straight to my beloved,
flowing gently over lips and teeth.
I belong to my beloved,
and his desire is for me.
Come, my beloved, let us go to the countryside,
let us spend the night in the villages.
Let us go early to the vineyards
to see if the vines have budded,
if their blossoms have opened,
and if the pomegranates are in bloom—
there I will give you my love.
from the Song of Solomon
(a king known for his wisdom)
I never quite saw the connection between a man suckling and thinking of him as infantile (unless that’s the fetish he pursues). It’s a wonderful part of pleasuring, another song in the masculine-feminine dance that we love so much. Too bad more people don’t see it as a way for a man to revel in his masculinity, much as the woman revels in him.
Sadly one point your post does not address is the fact that both have to take pleasure from the act, otherwise one is just masturbating against the other. With regard to bosom love, I believe that at least one poster from the LMH forums is in this precise situation. Such a pity.
Thank you for your comment.
You are right, it is best if both people receive pleasure from the act. Sometimes though, the pleasure we receive is in pleasuring the one we love, and that can be pleasure enough. If the person we love takes extreme pleasure in something, and feels it is a deep need, then it should be important enough to us to consent to it.
In my unprofessional opinion: There should be exceptions, like it being harmful or painful to us either physically or emotionally. Also if it is against our conscience and gives us feelings of guilt for participating, then the need has to assessed as to just how much of a need is it? Is there an alternative way to meet the need with another action that does not harm the partner’s being or conscience? Maybe it is more of a desire than a need? Is there a compromise that can be made? Should the relationship be ended, or does the relationship take priority over the need?
Another thought: If we can live without the act for the sake of the current relationship, is it good for us to dwell continuously on what our partner can not give us? Would our energy and mind be better off engaged in finding and participating in something mutually enjoyable, then in feeding our loss, martyrdom, and self pity? For some people, they might feel that just talking about it, or reading about it, meets the need enough to make not having the act tolerable. Only they can know the truth for them… Does it ease the desire or feed it?
Still talking to myself… This makes me think of some of the replys on the marriage forums… Right off the cuff, without even considering the idea of trying bosom love for a partner who might strongly desire it… they say, “I could NEVER do that if my partner wanted it!”
I think a loving response would at least be, “Let me think about that for a while.” Or even, “I don’t think I could ever do that, but if my partner wanted it, then I would give it more consideration.” How about, “I just don’t know.”
Why do they even need to post an answer?
Why say ” never” without thinking about it for at least a couple days? There are somethings we have considered and know “No way, under no circumstances would we put ourselves in that position.” But you can tell by people’s tone of voice in their post that they never considered it. They haven’t asked themselves,
“What if my partner was miserable or the relationship is in jeopardy? What would it cost my spouse, my children, or myself, if I say no?” Then, “Are they costs I am willing to pay?”
Some of these people are moderators of the forums. That is when I decide the forum is not worth my time. These people need to live a little… get some experience… before they give out advice on a marriage forum. They should be asking the questions, not answering them. It is not that I feel I am capable of helping everyone, but I generally know when to answer, “I don’t know, I have never been put in that situation.”
It is a shame that spouses who are being approached by their mates about bosom love, are going to these forums.
There, …………… done ranting.
I agree. But I also think the “adult baby” crowd makes us all look weird or crazy. Even though our motives are completely unrelated.