If you are searching for bosom love, or desire Bosom love with a mate who doesn’t understand, please accept my hugs. I have never been in your circumstance, but I am able to feel compassion towards you. My heart goes out to you.
I don’t have a lot to say right now, but I wanted you to know, that I do think about you. As I prattle on about my own blessing of having this wonderful expression of love in my marriage, you are not forgotten.
I have been asked to write a post specially for you. That deserves more time than I have right now, but my heart and mind are willing. I am working on it. For now, please consider yourself hugged.
Your friend,
His Milkmaid
I hope some day to make a ripple in the pond of resistance and ill placed taboo that stands in ignorance against this intimate expression of love between adults. May the day come, when the ignorance has been shattered. May the bosom be known again as it should be; the symbol and heart of deep intimacy.
Hopefully Bosom Love will be as widely accepted someday as oral sex is now today. It’s a truly beautiful thing.
It’s cold comfort for those of us who have to do without (or those who have been refused) but it’s still comfort nonetheless.
Thank you for your time and efforts.
Signed,
TrashCanFoundling
Thank you TCF for your comment, and your expressed appreciation for my effort. Your comments play a part in keeping me going and add to the discussion… so you and I are, in away, partners in this effort.
Not as a reply to TCF, but to all who read this:
“Someday” is more likely to happen in my children’s generation than my own…. but not necessarily. If just a few people were to get involved, people who were looked up too, famous individuals or politicians… song writers and musicians, movie script writers and producers, maybe a talk show host. I think the world is ready. The intimacy of sex has been down played, and sex has become more of an entertainment even among strangers. People are starving for intimacy.
Do we have any song writers amongst us? If the perfect song was to be submitted to the right artist… Is anyone writing in letters to producers? How about famous romance writers? Are we really trying?
There are marriage forums all over the net and forums dealing with adult relationships… We can all play a part. (Please DO NOT post on nursing mother forums. That is inappropriate… Unless there is an article by the author dealing specifically with ANR.)
There are a lot of yahoo groups, but they are not easily found in search engines. People are more likely to find porn… (that expose the erotic part, but leaves out the intimacy.) We need more blogs and more public websites that link to the well established yahoo groups.
There is supposed to a book coming out. I am on the email list. When it comes out I will let you know.
There are thousands of members to some of the yahoo groups… Everyday the member numbers are growing. A magazine or news letter, (on line,) could probably be self supporting with adds from dating services, lingerie, etc… We could by a google add cheep enough. There are already a couple video type games out there with “milk maids.” I know some people refuse the erotic side of bosom love and others see only that side, but we should not fight each other.
So dear reader, do you have a gift? Can you post in an appropriate public forum? Can you contribute to a blog with your story? …Maybe manage or contribute to a email newsletter and website?
We know that a lover at the breast is not as “kinky” as oral sex once was. Breasts are “more seemly” members of our anatomy than some. Maybe I am just naive… but I don’t think this has to be such a hard thing. Difference are more accepted now, minds are more open, and oral sex is no longer shame full and reserved for porn and fetishes. It is now an art form. How much easier should it be now for something as beautiful as the bosom, with it’s nipple so perfect and it’s milky glory so sweet.
I think our biggest concern will be some of the Madonnas of the nursing community. (But some are already our allies. Hey, I am one of them.) Some nursing mom advocates feel that adult suckling sexualizes a baby nursing and makes the public nursing of babies harder. It doesn’t have to be that way. We need to make the difference clear. We need to be sensitive, and not interfere with the hard work these people have put in, in trying to get women the right to nurse their babies without hiding in a nasty restroom.
“What say you?” Can you do something to further the correct awareness of bosom love?
Maybe what we need is another “Roman charity,” except between a loving married couple, perhaps where the husband is sick and the wife nurses him back to health (literally). That could go some way towards re-establishing bosom love as a loving an intimate gesture in the popular consciousness.
What did you mean by the “madonnas” of the infant nursing community? Did you mean those who push for public infant nursing to be accepted everywhere?
And a “nasty restroom”? Haven’t plenty of people on the LMH forums recommended a family restroom as a good place for bosom love in case of engorgement in a public place?
Madonnas… I meant the term in a complementary way. Yes I was referring to dedicated mothers who seek and stand for all that is best for their child, and this includes public breast feeding. I stand with them 100%
Public restrooms ARE nasty. People shouldn’t take babies in them…in my opinion.
As for adult couples… public display of this affection can not be compared with that of a mother and hungry baby.
Family restrooms are an improvement over typical restrooms. They are not occupied by more than one family at a time and are used by less people. It would have to be a last resort for me. I think I would rather be engorged.
Public restroom smells…either of chemical disinfectant, clouds of automatic air freshener, or biological waste… like all “smells,” they are actual air borne particles of the substance reaching your nose. If you didn’t know that, you can now appreciate the filtering function of nose hair. (ha!)
All those air borne particles are also landing on things, including you… and your exposed nipple, baby, and baby’s fingers etc. I know people cough and such, so we can not totally isolate our babies form viruses and bacteria, but I personally have a harder time with the stuff floating around in restrooms, especially when a baby is involved.
I changed my babies’ diapers in the car. I am not a germ-o-phobe, but this one thing and babies together, bothers me. This is where the word NASTY comes in for me.
Sooo..babies should NOT be banned to the restroom to eat any more than anyone else is.
Hey, that was my Madonna deed for the day. (smile)
Thank you again for your comments.
I have spent so many hours reading on the line since I started this Journey in November. That means I am not going to be able to post links for anything but…
In the many forms that I have read back to front, I have actually came across a few of breast milk being used to help people who are sick. These were on ANR forums and sites, so yes, the medicine was given from it source. There are also people who are drinking it after it being pumped; fresh or frozen.
In one account I read that a milk bank was distributing milk to at least 28 people who have doctor’s prescriptions for the milk. I read where a wife was lactating and her husband suckling for her benefit, due to MS. I also read at least one account of the man suckling to help with his MS. There was one where a lady was lactating for both her husband and her son, (pumping for the teenage son.) The son has Autism and she and his doctor saw an improvement. The doctor had prescribed a drug to help her lactate so the son could have breast milk. One lady was lactating and pumping for a son who had immunodeficiency and bowel problems. I saw at least one case posted in a couple places where a couple was having a BLR, (bosom love relationship) for a husband who has prostate cancer. I am sure there were more, but I can’t remember the details.
I wish I had thought of it at the time, to copy the links to these. This would be a good thing for someone with time to research. A report on this topic could generate some interest.
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I think it will get there. I’m pretty sure the internet will be a major player in its occurrence. I know every time I hear things like Salma Hayek nursing that baby in Africa or of cancer patients benefitting from breastmilk, I grow more confident of the future acceptance of this. I think the biggest obstacle is the “instant gratification” attitude of today’s people.