Married? “Must Read”

Stay connected with your spouse as a lover, not just as a parent,

Stay connected with your spouse as a lover, not just as a parent,

This so describes the first half of our marriage… and the solutions we put in place.

Missing the woman I fell in love with

Missing the Woman I Fell in Love With – thoughts

Here are 10 ways that you can stay connected with your spouse as a lover, not just as a parent

Theses articles just as easily could have been, “Missing the Man I fell in Love with.”  The solutions would be the same.

When we got married and had children right away, my life revolved around taking care of our children, and his became revolved around his career and church projects.  We led separate lives while living in the same house and sleeping in the same bed.  (We went nowhere with just the two of us… including our anniversaries,  for years. Each year I would beg for a date as an anniversary gift.) He had lured me into marriage. He had a wife, so he was on to his next conquest, his business.  I was his live in maid, nanny, and bed-warmer. The romance and intimacy dwindled. 

It wasn’t just me who had changed, it was both of us.

After much heart ache we realized that we love each other enough to share our time and our hearts.

 

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2 Responses to Married? “Must Read”

  1. Jan says:

    Really good links! I enjoyed reading the first one and am looking forward to exploring the site in general.
    Thanks!

  2. Tex says:

    Wow. What a great articles. That site is full of great stuff. Don’t know how you find all the material you do, but keep it up! It’s what keeps bringing me back to your site. You were right to call this one a “must read”.

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