Sadly, the idea of denying something to one’s spouse to exact a concession, to “punish,” or “just because I’m not interested and s/he shouldn’t be either,” is all too familiar to many couples. As I said before, no one is charged with teaching people how much work intimate relationships are or how to properly maintain them. Sometimes I wonder what it would take for people to take their relationships more seriously in general.

“Pretty knowledgeable,” huh . . . I would think that it’s common knowledge now that people (in general, anyhow) can get turned on by anything. Anything. I only wish that bosoming wasn’t considered so gauche and “perverted,” though.

Signed,

TrashCanFoundling

As to your question TrashCanFoundling, yes I do believe that we will be updating the blog on a more frequent basis. Both of our families have been “busy” as of late, but things are getting back to their normal routine. Family business must take a front seat since we do kind of like to eat, but the blog is important to both of us. I generally check for comments, clear out spam, etc. twice daily. Taking turns posting updates is a great idea giving our readers a little different perspective. We welcome ideas and questions from our readers as well as hearing about their own experiences.

It is really interesting to me to hear about how other couples discovered their ANR. It is like hearing a love story. The moments that my DH nuzzles at my breasts are never enough…I can never get enough…always wanting more; always looking forward to the next time that we will come together. Our times together are precious to both of us.

My hope is that this blog is becoming a vehicle to educate, eliminate fears and bring couples closer together through the bond of bosoming. My heart truly aches for those where one longs to suck or be suckled and their mate refuses. That idea is foreign to me.
Many probably don’t even know about the whole idea. I know that Hubby and I didn’t before last year…and we considered ourselves pretty knowledgeable about intimacy. I guess it goes to show you that we can always learn more about our mates…ways to please them and be pleased! We are very glad that we did!

Belonging to Him,
Luvmyhub

Are you going to update this blog more often? I would like to see this updated every week or every other week. Maybe you and HisMilkMaid could take turns updating it every week, so each of you only update the blog every other week.

I would love to learn more about you and your experiences through this blog.

Signed,

TrashCanFoundling

In times past, I have been guilty of listing too many unrealistic expectations of myself…only to be disappointed later. We all have strengths and weaknesses. I am a dreamer and a hopeless romantic which I have never regretted; I always think the best of everyone unless they give me reason not too and then I still believe in second chances…and third, fourth (you get the picture). However, this personality tends to have “too many irons in the fire”; multiple projects going on at the same time rarely completing them. For example, I have two (2) quilts that I started years ago and neither of them have been completed.

A HUGE motivation for getting organized is so that I can dig out some of those projects (one at a time) and work on them to completion. One of those quilts, a log cabin, was cut out 10 years ago; I want to place on our bed one day.

My dad often said, “the joy is in the journey”! Have I not completed projects because I want the journey to continue or do I become bored with it and abandon it? When projects are not completed they can’t be evaluated…no chance of failure…right? But failing to complete a task and completing it well leaves me feeling (I pause as I watch the cursor blink) like a failure. Maybe I should have become a shrink. LOL.

Here’s to completing tasks in the coming New Year!