Sizzling heat…in and out of the bedroom! Where I live, it is sweltering outside…and inside as well. Bosom love…does it get any better. Like our southern summers, some days are hotter than others. My garden is fried and the grasshoppers are trying to steal what is left, but I continue to persevere…hoping that the Okra will make it. I was encouraged yesterday when spying one, two-inch Okra. I hurried to get on-line and check when it should be “harvested”. Ecstatic was I to have found one…it is the first.
How blessed I am to have found “the One”. My husband and I are so in tune that it scares me sometimes. He seems to know me better than I know myself and at other times I am unsure if the time we have left to live will enable us to even scratch the surface. We’ve been married for over 6 years and in many ways we feel that we are just getting started. Catching up for lost time…he was my H.S. sweetheart many, many years ago. When we reunited some 27 yrs. later, that butterfly feeling returned as if we had just met. I am getting the flutters as I type this…tears forming.
This morning we had a very special bosom session. We were catching up for lost time. How exciting it was…I am forever grateful for this time in our lives. Every encounter is precious to me for we never know when our best friend, lover and spouse will cease to exist (or ourselves for that matter). I want to live each and every day as if it is our last, but this summer heat zaps my energy. My heart, mind and soul desire it though, each and every day.
Yes, I suppose it could get even hotter outside…but I much prefer the heat we create inside! It reminds me of that old song, “Fever” or “Steam Heat”! I know that some of you out there know what I am talking about. I keep waiting for the day that my twenty-something year-old daughters come to me and say, “Mom, you will never believe what I just read in Cosmo!…there are women who nurse their lovers…it’s called ANR…Can you believe that”? Geez, how will I respond…maybe, “Oh Honey, that’s old news” (laughing nervously) or will I say, “Don’t knock it until you’ve tried it”! I can see their jaws dropping in disbelief. LOL.
May the love that you share with your soul mate continue to blossom and grow with each new day; try to keep cool out in this summer heat.
Please feel free to write and share your thoughts…as always, I will keep you anonymous if you prefer.
Blessings to all,
Luvmyhub
Hmmm . . . “hot.” A word with so many connotations. Still, I’m glad you haven’t forgotten about this little corner on the web you’ve built. I’m looking forward to the time when you can resume regular updates.
The mercury’s quite high where I am too. I frankly prefer cold and snow. You can always put on more layers if it’s cold. The AC and summer wear only goes so far for heat. You can dig your way out of a snowstorm (and it’s good exercise). You can’t do the same for a hurricane, tornado, or torrential rain.
I remember an old love story that had a line that read “I’m crying at the thought you’ll ever be gone.” It’s a good way to remember how precious every second with your beloved is. You have a rare and precious treasure there.
I would like to believe that bosoming will become more mainstream in the future as the beautiful expression of a lovingly romantic relationship. If only it were possible to disentangle the “babyish” connotations from it . . .
Signed,
TrashCanFoundling
Thank you for your comments and it’s good to be back.
ANR brings a unique connection to our relationship…it is almost hard to describe. It reaches me on so many levels; not so for everyone. These days you can’t hardly watch an R-movie without seeing “everything”;however, we haven’t seen ANR yet. Surly these movie producers know about it. For me, there is something almost sacred about the whole thing…maybe that is why it is not talked about, etc. Other than this site (and what I share with my husband), I discuss it with no one. It is so precious and private that to talk about it casually would almost seem to cheapen it. But I am not one to talk about anything private casually with friends.
Who knows, it may just continue to be the best kept secret! I like to think that more people are experiencing it than we hear about.
Luvmyhub
Maybe those movie producers have heard about it (people in high places often have strange habits) but I still doubt many would dare unleash something as “controversial” as bosoming because of the connotations I mentioned. Still, I think talking about it to the right people could help plant the idea in fertile ground where it could spread to help others.
Yep, bosoming may be a great cement in relationships, but just like you don’t build a house with just cement (you need the wooden frame, the bricks, etc.), you need a strong relationship to start for bosoming to really bloom. Still, I think it would be great to see more strong relationships really blossom with this.
Of course, strong marriages have never had much traction in the media, mainly because they are boring to uninformed observers. The tabloids are full of supposed and real unstable marriages. Divorces make regular headlines. Al and Tipper Gore’s very long marriage? Withered away. Tiger Woods’ marriage? Crashed and burned. I have a few of my own personal idols who have gone through divorces, which makes me wonder if I have the guts and inner strength to tough out that long, harrowing road. Reading this site helps to encourage that vision of mine.
Of course, I hope your marriage gets warmer and nicer. “Hot” only lasts so long.
Signed,
TrashCanFoundling
Luvmyhub,
Another beautifully written piece from you, sharing your love of your husband and the process that has brought you two even closer together than you thought was possible. I have missed reading your well chosen words and am glad to see you back writing and sharing here.
The heat of summer will soon pass to cooler days and nights, but that just open other possibilities of snuggling under the covers in close embrace, breast to lips as close as two can get.
This summer, in our area, hasn’t been as hot outside, but I’m happy to report that our love is still bonded, may I say at the breast? and flourishes with a similar heat as yours.
We’ve been vacationing for a few weeks, and it’s been true bliss to be able to sleep in most days, and gently start the day with the luxury of unhurried bosoming time.
My beautiful wife generally falls asleep before me, and I generally wake before her, and sometimes that’s the agony of the situation. I love her, and her body so much that it’s hard to let her drift off, though it’s often with me at her breasts, or holding her, or with her draped over me. (She likes to rub my head when she falls asleep) And in the morning’s stillness I wait patiently for the moment when she sleepily turns her warm body to me, and I slide under the warmth of the quilt to latch on, as she slowly wakes. Often she simply falls back to sleep as I suckle gently, and the peacefullness of that, her comfort with me nurturing from her, is the most incredible feeling. Bonded, loved, nurtured, adored. There’s nothing quite like it.
Thank you Hismilkmaid and Luvmyhub, for sharing your thoughts, and accepting mine.
LW
WOW! Beautiful! I want so much to do this with my man. This is so right. I know this is exactly right even tho I have yet to experience it. I can’t wait to show this to my Love.
Thank you all for sharing so eloquently…what beautiful loving normal whole people you are! I can’t wait to be like you all seem to be …what a beautiful perfect place. someone’s comments about this being sacred are absolutely right, I believe. It is not in the mainstream because those in high places are fully aware that this magic is too strong and they dont want people to catch on….because it will make them stronger and healthier all across the board… Sad but true. …These are the days now, if ever when we, our husbands and our wives, need to cleave to the breast and be satisfied. Bonded and whole. I’m loving this.
Thank you so much for this site and these sharings of such beauty.