In the book, Norman writes about how we as children use our imagination to add fun to our lives. I agree with him, that it is a shame that as adults we often lose that capability.

There are some adults who role play through the form of video games. That is deemed “normal” for adults. Yet, erotic role play in the bedroom has become something we don’t talk about, as if it is taboo.

Of course many of us don’t talk to our friends about the details of our bedroom life, but even talking about erotic role play as a general topic is something people find embarrassing. It is often the butt of jokes and scripts on comedian shoes. It is great to be able to laugh, but we shouldn’t regulate imaginative sex to a place of ridicule.

In his book, Norman gives script ideas for couples who lack imagination or simply like to start with an idea and take it on their own from there. I am not going to go so far as to recommend buying the book. If you have any imagination at all, you don’t need to purchase it. If you have ten bucks to blow and a kindle to read when you get bored, and most importantly, you can stand grammar that is on par or worse than mine, then maybe.

Mostly I just wanted to bring up the idea. I recommend that you talk to your spouse about it. You can use my post as a spring board for your conversation. Then take an at home date night and lock yourselves in the bedroom. Make some preparations before hand if necessary. If you both have an idea of what role you are going to play, you can think about your part and what you might do or say. You might even dress for it.

Hey, how about starting off with a farmer and a milkmaid.
Guys love it when their ladies become a wildcat.
Guys can be a knight in shining armor.
How about taking him or her prisoner?
A little part time sex slave or bondage?
Butler or maid etc.

Really get into it and have a good time.

As you play and have fun together, you might find you want to quietly extend the roles of a week or more at a time. You will have this little insider information to carry around between you.

You might find you have a dominant or submissive personality as each one of you takes a certain type of role. Who is going to be the policeman or policewoman for example? If you see a pattern develop, I suggest you can read up on “sensual power exchange.” I have found it very self enlightening for us as a couple. Our ANR fits in nicely. If you live in a traditional “HOH,” (husband is head of the home,) like us, then you already have a form of power exchange that isn’t readily acceptable to modern society.  “Don’t knock it until you try it.” LOL.

The previous post is an erotic story that describes a sensual power exchange and has some imaginative wonder to it. Some of you were wondering where it came from. Now you know. Read the post before that, and you will see it coming. All this self honesty and discovery, all the safe vulnerability to play, letting out secret fantasies, and our acceptance of our kinky fetishes; a close relationship is what makes it all possible. I credit the closeness to our ANR.

As always and forever, I am Luvmyhub

How blessed I am to have found “the One”. My husband and I are so in tune that it scares me sometimes. He seems to know me better than I know myself and at other times I am unsure if the time we have left to live will enable us to even scratch the surface. We’ve been married for over 6 years and in many ways we feel that we are just getting started. Catching up for lost time…he was my H.S. sweetheart many, many years ago. When we reunited some 27 yrs. later, that butterfly feeling returned as if we had just met. I am getting the flutters as I type this…tears forming.

This morning we had a very special bosom session. We were catching up for lost time. How exciting it was…I am forever grateful for this time in our lives. Every encounter is precious to me for we never know when our best friend, lover and spouse will cease to exist (or ourselves for that matter). I want to live each and every day as if it is our last, but this summer heat zaps my energy. My heart, mind and soul desire it though, each and every day.

Yes, I suppose it could get even hotter outside…but I much prefer the heat we create inside! It reminds me of that old song, “Fever” or “Steam Heat”! I know that some of you out there know what I am talking about. I keep waiting for the day that my twenty-something year-old daughters come to me and say, “Mom, you will never believe what I just read in Cosmo!…there are women who nurse  their lovers…it’s called ANR…Can you believe that”? Geez, how will I respond…maybe, “Oh Honey, that’s old news” (laughing nervously) or will I say, “Don’t knock it until you’ve tried it”! I can see their jaws dropping in disbelief. LOL.

May the love that you share with your soul mate continue to blossom and grow with each new day; try to keep cool out in this summer heat.

Please feel free to write and share your thoughts…as always, I will keep you anonymous if you prefer.

Blessings to all,

Luvmyhub

His Milkmaid